You've done enough. You are enough. Now, let something carry you.
The proving, the carrying, the 2 a.m. lists — you're allowed to set them down. Refuge with Mary is a sanctuary for your nervous system: a free community to start, an app in your pocket, or Mary herself, one-to-one — for the hard seasons that don't clock out.
No cost to start. No pressure. Just a place to exhale.
From Tropical Refuge — A Sanctuary by the Sea · Manhattan Beach · Since 2004
You're not tired. You've been carrying too much, for too long.
Burnout isn't fatigue. It's accumulation — years of overriding your own needs, years of saying yes when you meant no.
The stress doesn't disappear when the day ends. It settles in — and starts to sound a lot like "normal."
The answer isn't becoming less kind.
It's becoming more boundaried.
You don't need to hustle harder or care less. You need somewhere to set the weight down — and someone in your corner who has walked women through the hardest seasons for two decades.
To pause · To breathe · To refill your own cup
Start free. Go only as deep as you need.
Everyone begins free — in the community, then the app — and climbs only as far as the season asks, all the way to Mary fully in your corner.
Start in The Enough Club
A free community for women who are done proving they're enough. The Enough Club lives inside the Refuge app — your free front door to everything, including a weekly reset from Mary.
The Refuge App
Everything unlocked. No credit card. You're a founding member.
- ${ic_chat}Coach Mary 24/7, 3-minute resets & an SOS button — all free while we're in beta.
- ${ic_moon}Sound baths, sleep guides & guided programs — every feature unlocked.
- ${ic_heart}Join free now, keep the founding price ($19/mo · $99/yr) later.
Founding pricing applies only to members who join during beta.
Monthly 1:1
One private session with Mary each month — plus her in your corner between sessions.
- ${ic_hand}One 60-min private session with Mary each month.
- ${ic_chat}Between-session voice & text support.
- ${ic_heart}A monthly nervous-system reset, personal to you.
1:1 Container
Inner Soul Beauty — a 3-month transformation with Mary.
- ${ic_hand}Twice-monthly private coaching with Mary.
- ${ic_wave}Reiki & nervous-system regulation.
- ${ic_star}Monthly renewal facial & movement.
VIP Mentorship
Mary, fully in your corner — the highest-touch container.
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- ${ic_heart}Priority access between sessions.
- ${ic_star}A VIP studio day & full sanctuary access.
Not sure where to start? Most women begin free — in The Enough Club or the app — and climb only as far as the season asks.
Not ready to go deep? You don't have to decide today.
Start free in The Enough Club — a free community for women who are done proving they're enough. It lives inside the Refuge app: your free front door to everything, including a weekly reset from Mary. No cost, no pressure, no guilt if you just lurk.
Join the Enough Club — free →A reset you can reach for tonight.
Coach Mary, 24/7
A warm guide trained in Mary's voice — with SMS escalation to the real Mary when it matters.
Three-minute resets
Short, guided moments to bring your nervous system back down when the day gets loud.
The SOS button
One tap for the hardest moments — the 2 a.m. spiral, the panic before the meeting, the grief wave.
Sound baths & rest
Reiki-informed soundscapes and rest sessions to quiet a racing mind and soften the body.
Sleep for racing minds
Wind-downs made for the woman who lies awake running tomorrow's list at midnight.
Guided programs
Divorce Reset. Grief Series. Gentle, sequenced support for the season you're actually in.
Mary Weaver
Master Esthetician · Reiki Master · Holistic Wellness Coach
For twenty years, Mary has been the calm in other women's storms. She built Tropical Refuge — a Sanctuary by the Sea in Manhattan Beach — as a place where the women who hold everyone together could finally be held. Refuge with Mary brings that same sanctuary to your phone, and keeps her door open for the ones ready to go deeper.
Beautiful, you were never meant to carry all of it alone. Consider this your invitation to come home to yourself.
Blessings, Mary
"Working with Mary is the best decision I've made for myself."
— Sabina, Refuge client
Be one of the first 1,000.
We're welcoming a founding circle of women into Refuge with Mary before the public launch. Get in now and you'll help shape the app thousands will lean on — and lock founding-member pricing for good.
- ${ic_check}Premium free through the entire beta
- ${ic_check}A direct line to Mary to shape the app
- ${ic_check}Founding-member pricing, locked forever
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Questions, answered warmly.
No — and we'll never pretend to be. Refuge with Mary is holistic wellness: complementary support alongside your medical and mental-health care, never a replacement for treatment, diagnosis, or crisis care. If you're in crisis, please call or text 988 (the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline).
During the founding beta the app is free — everything unlocked, no credit card. Founding members lock the founding rate ($19/month or $99/year) for when beta ends. From there you can begin working with Mary directly through Monthly 1:1 at $300/month (one private session plus support between), go deeper with a 3-month 1:1 Container at $4,200 (3 payments of $1,400, or a single session for $250), or apply for VIP mentorship from $1,500/month. Start anywhere; climb only when you're ready.
Start in the app if you want relief you can reach for tonight. Choose 1:1 coaching when you're ready for deeper, guided work with Mary herself. Many women do both — the app between sessions, Mary for the turning points.
We're inviting women in small waves right now so we can welcome each one properly. Reserve your spot and we'll send your invite as space opens.
The app is for you wherever you are. In-person coaching and facials happen at the studio in Manhattan Beach; 1:1 coaching is also available online, anywhere.
Consider this your invitation. To pause. To breathe. To refill your own cup.
Blessings, Mary Weaver